Friday, November 26, 2010

SW-Mise: International Day of Persons with Disabilities -3 ...

SW-Mise: International Day of Persons with Disabilities -3 ...: "International Day of Persons with Disabilities -3 Dec 2010 // World Disability Day - 3rd December 2010 On 3rd December 2010 Hon Preside..."

International Day of Persons with Disabilities -3 Dec 2010 // World Disability Day - 3rd December 2010

International Day of Persons with Disabilities -3 Dec 2010 // World Disability Day - 3rd December 2010

On 3rd December 2010 Hon President of India, Prime Minister of India, CP-UPA on behalf of Government of India will be addressing the nation their concern & best wishes to the Persons with Disability along some directives for betterment. The entire object of the Government will be covered by electronic media and news papers for awareness of general public and government organizations.

It may be expected that keeping in view the neglect, differential treatment, harassment & insults made by some local District administration to the Persons with Disabilities, Government will add few lines (Specimen placed below for ready reference) to arrest such treatments in future instead be sympatric to PWDs.

“District administration should ensure that no harassment is made to PWDs & their cases / issues are dealt with sympathy and expediously”

Chinmay Kar 26th Nov '2010 ***
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Your Request/Grievance Registration Number is : PRSEC/E/2010/18108 – POI (Secretary)


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Wednesday, November 17, 2010

SW-Mise: A DOWRY / DEMAND CASE OF EX AIR FORCE PERSONAL – A...

SW-Mise: A DOWRY / DEMAND CASE OF EX AIR FORCE PERSONAL – A...: "A DOWRY / DEMAND CASE OF EX AIR FORCE PERSONAL – ADVICE SOLICITED FOR OUT OF COURT SETTLEMENT A self detailed ca..."

A DOWRY / DEMAND CASE OF EX AIR FORCE PERSONAL – ADVICE SOLICITED FOR OUT OF COURT SETTLEMENT

A DOWRY / DEMAND CASE OF EX AIR FORCE PERSONAL – ADVICE
SOLICITED FOR OUT OF COURT SETTLEMENT

A self detailed case received from an Ex Air Force personal, happened to be my personal friend placed below may please be seen for ready appreciation. On retirement Sri. K.Adhikary arranged daughter’s marriage spending his entire financial resources to the satisfaction of “school teacher’s family”. Post marriage demand & pressure for money from time to time, harassment and ill treatment including physical assaults took place and finally Sri. Adhikary’ daughter had to come back to his father. Sri.Adhikary before proceeding to court has lodged necessary complains to all local administration but nothing has been done to set the matter right. Now Sri. Adhikary is facing extreme financial trouble to continue his younger daughter further studies, marriage and maintaining extra burden to family etc. Court case is a time consuming factor no body can say when this will be over.
Sri.Adhikary now has requested to explore possibility of a settlement out of court by intervention of any respected individual or organization so that necessary approach in this regard can be made.
We, under the circumstance request all of you to kindly advise the best possible way to over come the problem. Thanks.

Chinmay Kar
chinmaykar@yahoo.co.in
18.11.2010
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"From: Kamal Adhikary
Subject: Fw: A submission
To: "chinmay kar"
Date: Wednesday, 17 November, 2010, 9:09 PM


As discussed over phone you may please move a possible settlement out of court by any respectable individual or any organization at the earliest possiable. Court proceedings may consume unlimited time factor which severly tell upon us both financially and mentally-

Kamal Adhikary
17.11.2010

--- On Tue, 8/6/10, Kamal Adhikary wrote:


From: Kamal Adhikary
Subject: A submission
To: "chinmay kar"
Date: Tuesday, 8 June, 2010, 4:53 AM


Sir,

I beg to inform you that I am Kuheli Adhikary Mondal . Father Kamal Adhikary , retired from Indian AIR Force Defence Service on May 1998. Residing at Shimultala, P.O. +P.S. - Bongaon, Dist 24 Parganas (N), West Bengal . I got married to a school teacher Name Subhomoy Mondal, Father Late Madhusudan Mondal on 13 Feb. 2009 residing at Basirhat Tapa Mirjapur Road (Tapachar), P.S.+ P.O. - Basirhat, Dist- 24 Parganas (N), West Bengal . This marriage was conducted in consent to both family. In this marriage ceremony dowry was given as their requirements - Cash Rs. 50,000.00, Ornaments 10 Tolla, Box Bed Stead, Raunak Cushion, Almirah Steel, Dressing Table, T.V. Stand, Godrej Micro Woven, Blanket, Shawl, Titan Wrist Watch, Gold Chain and Gold Ring. Initially the marriage life was peaceful within the four month of marriage, I visited thrice my parents house with my husband. But at the time of rite ( Jamai Sasthi ) we were invited by my parents. I went to my parents house along with my husband to attend the ritual ceremony ( Jamai Sasthi ) we stayed there for four days. But on 3rd day my husband demanded One Lakh Rupees from my father for business purpose. Father convineed him that you are a school teacher your Mom also a employed lady. Why you are going for this headache job. As you are in ned thirty (30,000) thousand cash is in my hand you can take this for the present. It is difficult for me to acquire One Lakh Rupees roght now. He also told that he is running short of money for debt. But my husband was reluctant to accept those Rs. 30,000.00 forceing my father to demand Lakh of rupees from the bank. Father was not agreed in this regard.

Next day my self and my husband went back to Basirhat on completion of tour. After reaching there money matter was informed to my mother in law by my husband. She started abusing me in harsh language. Husband also participated along with her. Both tortured me physically and mentally. Food was not served on that day. They were telling so often, inform your father to pay the amount as early as possible. As there was no demand from my side. They were very annoyed upon me, and so often changing the torturing style. In front of the neighbours insulted me by using jarring words. I was in a hope that it will be alright one day but it was not I was suddenly brought back to my parents house with in a two weeks. After arrival at home my husband informed my parents that he is going for a tour with his friend circle there by he wants Kuheli (Me) should stay some days with you this was his statement. He did not stay that day left the house within a half an hour. His attitude was quite agreesive while departing from here. He did not inform after reaching at Basirhat. I tried to contact him at right but Mobile Phone switch was kept off. I tried to contact my mother-in-law also on same right but I was in vain. I was trying hard to contact him on next day also. But every thing was in vain. After a week I could contact him by sending a SMS. He given a phone call at night told me to stay some more days. Then switch off the phone. Some how I could contact my husband on 12 day. I told to him this not fair take way me from parents house I did not come here to stay for long. Tomorrow, I am starting my journey from here. The raparcation was like that don't come here just like that we wont be available at home for two days. I told him also wheather you stay there or not I am interested I am moving tomorrow with my parents. We have gone and reached Basirhat at 15.00 hrs. dated 26.07.2009. This matter was informed to police station because of fear that they way harm one. I stayed with my husband for another 20 days those days have passed in very crucial way, within this 20 days they troubled me a lot shown harsh behaviour, used slung language, not allowing to take food in proper manner. They were not allowing me to use my ornaments also all the ornaments were seized by my mother- in-law illegally.I informed this matter to my parents that I am in trouble they are harassing and torturing me every now and then after hearing my cry father come there with my two cousin brother for conversation of our problem. My husband was disappeared from there on that day when he came to know that father is coming for conversation. The disceession among my father and mother-in-law stayed for 10 minutes. Within this minutes some sort of grievances were thrown each other. At last further told to my mother-in-law some sort of tension mounted among you. Better if take away my daughter from you for some days things will be alright. It was also requested by my father that Subhomoy (my husband) should go to bring her within a week. Response of my mother-in-law was like that take away your daughter permanent from here. My son will never go to your house. Even if you want to proceed before the court you are well come. I was astonished after watching the face and eyes of my father. Me approached me with a broken heart and told me let us go. I came out with my father and cousin brother is a empty stomach even a glass of water not been served to my father and cousin brother at that time. While coming out from Basirhat we visited police station again to disclose the facts. Stn. officer i/c Sanjoy Chattopadhyay heared the facts, assured us he will take to Subhomoy family for solving the problem for that some four days time require for. It was the day 16th Aug. 2009. It is noticed that my husband nor office-in-charge of police bother to contact within a week. My father made a contact with police i/c. Response came from the office-in-charge that Subhomoy family not having any interest to talk to you because of SMS for warded by your daughter. But the contents of SMS was not conveyed to us. We were embarrassed to see the attitude of officer i/c. As there was not way to contact my husband. I could not resist my self from such an in sult. I approached my father to appear before the court for action. Section 498-A/406 IPC was filed by the advocate of Basirhat Court on dt. 02.09.09 to SDJM of Basirhat. But this case was not been registered by the police stn. Basirhat. Another miss petition before the court for coarse of action dt. 16.09.09. A case was registered after the summon send from the court. We were told to report to police stn. for possession of gift articles day was allotted on 23.09.09. We went there according to their instruction but the 2nd offer (Mejo Babu) was not present on that day. When it was asked 2nd offer when to report next. He told us to come on 24.09.09. We went there as per the time and schedule was given. 2nd offer also told us, no others should come along with you, around 17.00 hrs. 2nd offer and ASI S. Pal taken us in police jeep to my husband house for identifying the gift articles. Gift articles are seen scattered all over the verandah. Some relatives of my husband were present there. They started abusing me in slung language not allowing us or me to identify the gift articles. They were pushing us out from the home. Not allowing rickshaw van puller to carry away the items. In the meantime they started beating us with slap and slippers. One of my husband cousin brother recoded the total seenario in video camera. When we came out from the home infront of police people they played conch, drum bit uludwane ( moving tongues within their mouth) and quarlanded us with slippers. We were afraid the way relative of my husband rushed behind us with a broken heart and slame we reached in police station. W were not in position for lodging further FIR on same day. Around 7.30 pm we came out from the Police Stn. for Bongaon what is to be done was not in our imagination. We decided to meet SP Barasat and we have done so. We met SP Barasat revealed the facts of incident in short span of time. We have seen him that he lifted telephone had a not line convenation with Basirhat Off I/C. He told to us report Basirhat I/C on next day by 11.00 hrs. We went to Basirhat I/C Saheb. He told us to write an application against the perpetrators. Application was written and handed over to him. I/C was not satisfied with that application. He instructed us to efface the name of police people from that application. It was done according to him otherwise he was not accepting that application. FIR cases registered against the perpetrators IPC-341/323/325/354/504/506/34. So far my knowledge bears 498A/406 is a nonbailable case. Even though no one is arrested or punished fill this time. I already approached before the SDIM Bongaon court for maintenance of my life. As I am unemployed. It is difficult for me to stay with my father because he is already running in debt. There by , It is my earnest request to concerne authority or government to look into this matter in sympathetic way. Otherwise I shall have no other alternative than to seeking legal advice in this matter. Now everything depends on your consideration.



Yours faithfully







KUHELI ADHIKARY MONDAL

C/o- Kamal Adhikary

Shimultala,

P.O. +P.S. - Bongaon,

Dist - 24 Pgs. (N), West Bengal

Pin Code- 743235

Husband's Family :



Subhomay Mondal (Schoolteacher)

Sulata Mondal (Mother-in-law) (Government Employee)

Kabita Das (Aunty)

Diptimoy Das (Cousin brother) (Government Employee)





Address:



Subhomoy Mondal

Tapa Mirja Pur Road

P.O. +P.S. - Basirhat

Dist.- 24 Pgs. (N)

West Bengal